1. Recognize that women want to feel connected. Women want to make sure their relationship is on solid ground. After a period of separation — even a day apart — establish that closeness as soon as you can, and everything afterward will flow more freely. This doesn't mean you have to put your own needs completely on hold. For example, if you come home exhausted from a long day at work and your partner wants to talk, try saying, “I'm so glad to see you. I missed you and wondering how your day was going. I want to hear all about it, but I'm tired right now. I need a few minutes to unwind and relax. Can we talk in 15 minutes?” 2. Don't jump into problem-solving mode. If you're not sure what your partner needs at any given moment, it's okay to ask her. You might say, “It sounds like you're really upset. Would you like me to listen, or would you like some suggestions?” 3. If your partner is less interested in sex than you are, try a li...
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